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mel35
24 January 2012 @ 09:27 pm
I need to reblog this from Tumblr cause it's a beautiful story. I don't use my Tumblr a lot so I'm doing it here. Source is this blog: http://getstooobsessed.tumblr.com/post/9004061623/mommy-they-are-just-like-me-my-oldest-son-is


“Mommy, they are just like me.”

My oldest son is six years old and in love for the first time. He is in love with Blaine from Glee.

For those who don’t know Blaine is a boy…a gay boy, the boyfriend of one of the main characters, Kurt.

This isn’t a ‘he thinks Blaine is really cool’ kind of love. It is a mooning at a picture of Blaine’s face for a half hour followed by a wistful “He’s so pretty” kind of love.

He loves the episode where two boys kiss. My son will call people in from other parts of the house to make sure they don’t miss his ‘favorite part.’ He’s been known to rewind it and watch it over again…and force other to, as well, if he doesn’t think people have been paying enough attention.

This infatuation doesn’t bother me or his father. We live in a very hip-liberal neighborhood, many of our friends are gay, and idea of having a gay son isn’t something that bothers either of us. Our son is going to be who he is, and it is our job to love him. End of story.

He is also six. Six year olds get obsessed with all kinds of things. This might not mean anything at all. We always joke that he’s either gay, or we have the best blackmail material in the history of mankind when he’s a 16 year old straight boy. (Take that naked bath time pictures!)

Then the other day we were traveling across the state listening to the Warblers album (of course), and in the middle of Candles, my son pipes up from the back seat.

“Mommy, Kurt and Blaine are boyfriends.”

“Yes, they are,” I affirm.

“They don’t like kissing girls. They just kiss boys.”

“That’s true.”

“Mommy, they are just like me.”

“That’s great, baby. You know I love you no matter what?”

“I know…” I could hear him rolling his eyes at me.

When we got home I recapped this conversation to his Dad, and we stood simply looking into each other’s eyes for a moment. Then we smiled.

“So if at 16 he wants to make a big announcement at the dinner table, we can say ‘You told us when you were six. Pass the carrots’ and he’ll be disappointed we stole his big dramatic moment,” my husband says with a laugh and hugs me.

Only time will tell if my son is gay, but if he is I am glad he’s mine. I am glad he has been born into our family. A family full of people who will love and accept him. People who will never want him to change. With parents who will look forward to dancing at his wedding.

And I have to admit, Blaine would be a really cute son-in-law.


 
 
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26 October 2011 @ 11:20 pm






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mel35
26 September 2011 @ 10:53 pm
Just Arizona/Callie/Sofia:


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19 September 2011 @ 10:48 pm







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mel35
17 July 2011 @ 11:17 pm
Some Grey's Anatomy-Calzona S6 icons.
I tried to follow a couple of beautiful lore_85  's tutorials, so I apologize if a couple of icons are too similar to hers, I'm just..."experimenting" :)



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mel35
22 June 2011 @ 08:55 pm
I tried to follow one of lore_85  's tutorials and it's great! I'm not good as she is but I learned something new and that's great already!!




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mel35
22 June 2011 @ 11:26 am
"House" just ended (well, for me anyway) so it's time to change my header. I still can't understand how I managed to spend S7 without having a new one, but I was still working on a "Now What" one when "Bombshells" happened LOL so I give up.

This new one is so much better!

New layout, too.
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mel35
06 March 2011 @ 10:35 pm
7x14 "Recession Proof" icons

Few things, but I NEED a Cuddy's Vagina icon, obviously.

And thanks to my dear friend sjoes  for the suggestion. ;)






 
 
mel35
26 February 2011 @ 10:10 pm
Few textless icons......

7x13 "Two Stories":






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mel35
17 February 2011 @ 09:41 pm
7x12 - "You Must Remember This"
Nothing special, but I need a wet-Cuddy icon.

Well 4 of them.




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